Positive Parenting: Discipline Without Violence
Many parents believe that beating a child is necessary to raise them well. Positive parenting shows that children learn best through love, guidance and respect.
What many people believe
Physical punishment is widely seen as a normal and even necessary part of raising a disciplined child. Parents who do not beat their children may be seen as too soft.
Why this norm is harmful
Harsh punishment can injure children, damage their trust in their parents and affect their learning and emotional wellbeing. Children who experience violence are more likely to see it as a normal way to solve problems later in life.
The norm we promote
Children learn best through love, clear guidance, encouragement and consistent, non-violent discipline. Positive parenting builds strong relationships between parents and children and helps children grow into confident, respectful adults.
How BAKAID works on this
- Supporting Malezi Chanya (Positive Parenting) community volunteer groups, formed under Government guidelines, to share positive parenting education with families.
- Promoting early childhood development, play and responsive care for young children.
- Working with religious leaders to share positive parenting messages with their congregations.
What you can do
Praise good behaviour, set clear rules, explain consequences calmly and spend time talking and playing with your children. Ask a Malezi Chanya volunteer or Social Welfare Officer for support.